{"id":340,"date":"2015-07-18T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2015-07-18T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/2015\/07\/18\/to-parents-who-want-to-teach-their-kids-life-lessons-but-cant-get-started\/"},"modified":"2022-11-06T17:01:14","modified_gmt":"2022-11-06T09:01:14","slug":"to-parents-who-want-to-teach-their-kids-life-lessons-but-cant-get-started","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/to-parents-who-want-to-teach-their-kids-life-lessons-but-cant-get-started\/","title":{"rendered":"To Parents Who Want To Teach Their Kids Life Lessons, But Can&#8217;t Get Started"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;0px|||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||&#8221;][et_pb_row custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;off|phone&#8221; module_class=&#8221;single-post-body et_pb_row_fullwidth et_pb_row_fullwidth et_pb_row_fullwidth et_pb_row_fullwidth et_pb_row_fullwidth et_pb_row_fullwidth et_pb_row_fullwidth et_pb_row_fullwidth et_pb_row_fullwidth et_pb_row_fullwidth&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; width=&#8221;89%&#8221; width_tablet=&#8221;80%&#8221; width_phone=&#8221;&#8221; width_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; max_width=&#8221;89%&#8221; max_width_tablet=&#8221;80%&#8221; max_width_phone=&#8221;&#8221; max_width_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;|0px||0px&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; custom_margin_phone=&#8221;&#8221; custom_margin_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; make_fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Main Blog Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;16&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;28px&#8221; header_font=&#8221;geomanist-bold||||&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; custom_margin_phone=&#8221;-55px|-45px||&#8221; custom_margin_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; text_font_size_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; text_font_size_phone=&#8221;&#8221; text_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; text_line_height_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; text_line_height_phone=&#8221;&#8221; text_line_height_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; z_index_tablet=&#8221;500&#8243; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Life lessons are akin to battle scars &#8211; gathered and collected over time, through <em>trials<\/em> and <em>tribulations<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>As parents, you will have at least a couple of decades of life experiences ahead of your growing teen. It\u2019s safe to say that sharing your most important life lessons can help your growing teen avoid potholes that you have stepped on and fell. This allows him\/ her to have a headstart in life.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h2>Read Also<\/strong><\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"padding-left: 60px;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/should-parents-place-a-huge-emphasis-on-their-childrens-academics\/\">Should Parents Place A Huge Emphasis On Their Children\u2019s Academics?<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li style=\"padding-left: 60px;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/5-child-friendly-tips-to-unwind-without-getting-addicted\/\">5 Child-Friendly Tips To Unwind Without Getting Addicted<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li style=\"padding-left: 60px;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/6-surprising-reasons-why-your-child-is-not-interested-in-studying\/\">6 Surprising Reasons Why Your Child Is Not Interested In Studying<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li style=\"padding-left: 60px;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/seven-reasons-why-ccas-are-essential-to-your-childs-well-being\/\">Seven Reasons Why CCAs Are Essential To Your Child\u2019s Well-being<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Of course, it will be impractical to sit your teen down and walk him\/ her through your whole life till present. Unless your life is as interesting as the comedy <em>How I Met Your Mother<\/em> \u2013 even so, people eventually got relatively bored of the show \u2013 your restless teenage daughter or son will probably only afford you 15 minutes at most \u2013 sadly a generous approximation.<\/p>\n<p>Think of <em>five life lessons<\/em>! If you are fast enough, you may be able to finish it in 15 minutes \u2013 you may have to forget about catching your breath.<\/p>\n<p>The following are some possible life lessons that may be reflective of your own.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>&nbsp;<span style=\"color: #d00031; font-family: geomanist-bold;\">#1: Listen To Your Heart <\/span><\/h2>\n<p>In present times, choices are mostly governed by social norms and influences. Not many are able to step out and declare that they have followed their heart\u2019s desires. It is important to always give your <a href=\"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/the-minimalist-guide-to-raising-a-teenage-boy\/\">rising&nbsp;teen<\/a> the courage to pursue his or her passion and what he\/ she really likes.<\/p>\n<p>Many missed the point that success and passion are just disguise of one another. Notable figures of our modern society like Jack Ma and Steve Jobs famously shared similar views. Their overwhelming passion to better the world has led to revolutionary features in which extreme wealth was merely a subset of their brilliance.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #d00031; font-family: geomanist-bold;\">#2: Cherish The Present<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>This is admittedly harder said than done.<\/p>\n<p>As adults and parents, you may often dwell in the past and worry about the future. Unfortunately, this is not ideal. Perhaps by preaching this value to your growing teen, it will act as a constant reminder to yourself. The importance of cherishing the present has become somewhat of a clich\u00e9 (or rather a corny catchphrase), but it is ever so true. The only thing you can do once the moment is gone is to remember it.<\/p>\n<p>Teach your teenager to stop, experience, soak in and live in the moment, for the moment. Live today and live it well so there will be no regrets tomorrow!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #d00031; font-family: geomanist-bold;\">#3: Learn To Interact <\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The advent of smartphones and tablets has led to a somewhat introverted way of life. People communicate through these technological platforms. This trend is ever so prevalent among teenagers whose generation was caught in midst of the technological big bang.<\/p>\n<p>Communicating face-to face has seem to become the vestige of the past. However, it still remains an essential skill in life. It is therefore important to teach your growing teen how to do so and express what he\/she wants and how he\/she feels.<\/p>\n<p>Teaching your growing teen the skill of listening will also put him in good stead in the future. Listening is a skill \u2013 almost criminally &#8211; undervalued. Only through listening can one truly learn. Most problems occur when people are <em>too impatient<\/em> to listen and it is a common problem among teens today.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #d00031; font-family: geomanist-bold;\">#4: Stay Positive <\/span><\/h2>\n<p>An important life lesson to inculcate to your growing teen is to stay positive and optimistic.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s safe to say that everyone has encountered challenges and obstacles in life, the only difference is that some face more challenges than others. Ups and downs are inevitable. The only way to deal with it is to learn to be optimistic and stay positive.<\/p>\n<p>It is very easy to give up but it is difficult to smile and just move on. Teach your teenager to be thankful for the things he\/she have and not to take things for granted. At the same time, it is essential that your teenager learns to work hard for the things he\/she wants and desires. Never give up and things will come through.<\/p>\n<p>Success belongs not to the talented but the resilient!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #d00031; font-family: geomanist-bold;\">#5: Self-belief<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Teach your growing teen to have faith and believe in himself\/herself.<\/p>\n<p>Do not be overly affected by the opinions of others as they are rightly entitled to their own. Teach your children to <span style=\"font-family: geomanist-bold;\"><u><strong>work towards their<\/strong> goals<\/u><\/span> and always keep faith, even in face of failures after failures. Only through self-belief will they learn to be confident and resilient. Once developed and inculcated, it is a trait that will be stuck with them for life and will certainly serve them well in the future to come.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #d00031; font-family: geomanist-bold;\">One last note\u2026<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>These life lessons are crucial to your teen\u2019s development. Every parent wants their children to grow up with the right attitude and view towards life. These lessons go a long way in shaping your growing teen\u2019s life.<\/p>\n<p>Once inculcated, these are values that will be engraved in their minds forever and for future generations to come.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.7&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;0px||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||&#8221; global_module=&#8221;933&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_divider color=&#8221;#898989&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.7&#8243;][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Pique-Lab-Parent-Support-Group-CTA.jpg.png&#8221; url=&#8221;https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/279058918884463\/&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; align_tablet=&#8221;center&#8221; align_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;PSG&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.23&#8243; z_index_tablet=&#8221;500&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; text_text_color=&#8221;#333333&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; z_index_tablet=&#8221;500&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Please click <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/279058918884463\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>here<\/strong><\/a> to join our Parent Support Group on Facebook!<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":241537,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<span style=\"font-family: geomanist-bold;\">Students learn<\/span> the topic of <span style=\"color: #d00031;\"><strong>Electricity<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0at Primary 5 and many of them find the concepts to be confusing, especially when they are first exposed to this topic.\r\n\r\nAs such, over the next few blog posts, I will be sharing more about the concepts of <span style=\"color: #d30001;\"><strong>Electricity<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0that are commonly tested during examinations.\r\n\r\nIn today\u2019s blog post, I will be focusing on the arrangement of the wires in a bulb and relate it to how a bulb should be connected in a circuit.\r\n<h2><span style=\"color: #d00031;\">Today\u2019s Question:<\/span><\/h2>\r\n<blockquote><span style=\"color: #d00031;\"><strong>How Should The Bulb Be Connected To The Circuit For It To Light Up?<\/strong><\/span><\/blockquote>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">The following question is commonly encountered by students during tests.<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/ACS-J-Question.png\"><img class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8447 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/ACS-J-Question-1024x630.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"630\" \/><\/a><em>Question Credit: Anglo Chinese School (Junior)\/ 2015 Primary 5 SA1\/ Question 18<\/em><\/p>\r\nWe can see that the key difference between the four options is the connection of the bulb(s) in the circuit.\r\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #d00031;\">Requirements Needed for a Bulb to Light Up<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\r\n\u00a0\r\n\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Screenshot-2017-09-17-12.54.25.png\"><img class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8451 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Screenshot-2017-09-17-12.54.25-1024x547.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"547\" \/><\/a>\r\n\r\n\u00a0\r\n\r\n<strong><u>One wire is connected to the metal casing & one wire is connected to the metal tip<\/u><\/strong>\r\n\r\n\u00a0\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Example-of-a-Closed-Circuit.png\"><img class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8452 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Example-of-a-Closed-Circuit-e1505630926957-1024x665.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"665\" \/><\/a><em>Example of a closed circuit<\/em><\/p>\r\nWhen the wires in the circuit are connected to the metal casing and metal tip of the bulb, there is a closed (or complete) circuit with the bulb. Electricity will be able to flow through the filament, causing the bulb to light up.\r\n<h2><span style=\"color: #d00031;\"><strong>What Happens When Both Wires Are Connected To The Metal Tip\/Metal Casing?<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Scenario #1: Both wires are connected to the metal tip<\/strong><\/span>\r\n\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Scenario-1.png\"><img class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8453 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Scenario-1-e1506494508837-1024x543.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"543\" \/><\/a>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">E<em>xample of a circuit when the wires are connected only to the metal tip<\/em><\/p>\r\nWhen both wires are connected to the metal tip of the bulb, electricity is unable to flow through the filament, preventing the bulb from lighting up.\r\n\r\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Scenario #2: Both wires are connected to the metal casing<\/strong><\/span>\r\n\r\n\u00a0\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Scenario-2.png\"><img class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8454 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Scenario-2-e1505630899322-1024x545.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"545\" \/><\/a>Example of a circuit when the wires are connected only to the metal casing<\/em><\/p>\r\nWhen both wires are connected to the metal casing of the bulb, electricity is unable to flow through the filament, preventing the bulb from lighting up.\r\n\r\nNow, let us now take a look at the question again.\r\n<h2><span style=\"color: #d00031;\"><strong>Analysis Of The Options<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/ACS-J-Question.png\"><img class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8447 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/ACS-J-Question-1024x630.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"630\" \/><\/a>\r\n\r\nWhen analysing the circuits, students need to take note of one key point:\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #d30001;\"><strong>How is the bulb connected to the circuit?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\r\nIn the following analysis, I have traced the pathway that electricity flows through (in red) as well so that it is easier to understand why the bulb lights up.\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Circuit A<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Circuit-A.png\"><img class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8455\" src=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Circuit-A-748x1024.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"329\" height=\"450\" \/><\/a>\r\n\r\nBoth the metal casing and tip of the bulb are connected to the circuit, forming a closed circuit. Thus, electricity is able to flow through the wires in the circuit to the filament, allowing the bulb to light up.\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Circuit B<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Circuit-B.png\"><img class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8456\" src=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Circuit-B-940x1024.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"367\" height=\"400\" \/><\/a>\r\n\r\nOnly the tip is connected to the circuit. Thus, electricity is unable to flow through the filament, preventing the bulb from lighting up.\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Circuit C<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Circuit-C.png\"><img class=\"alignnone wp-image-8457\" src=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Circuit-C-1024x819.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"475\" height=\"380\" \/><\/a><\/p>\r\nOnly the casing is connected to the circuit. Thus, electricity is unable to flow through the filament, preventing the bulb from lighting up.\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Circuit D<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Circuit-D.png\"><img class=\"alignnone wp-image-8458\" src=\"https:\/\/thesmartstudent.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Circuit-D-707x1024.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"311\" height=\"450\" \/><\/a><\/p>\r\nBoth the metal casing and tip of the two bulbs are connected to the circuit, forming a closed circuit. Thus, electricity is able to flow through the wires in the circuit to the filaments, allowing the bulbs to light up.\r\n\r\nAs the bulbs in circuits A and D will light up, the correct answer is option 4.\r\n<h2><span style=\"color: #d00031;\"><strong>What We Have Learnt Today<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\r\nWhen students wish to find out if the bulb will light up, they should check the following:\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #d00031;\">Are both the metal casing and the tip of the bulb connected to the circuit?<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\r\nIf the answer to the question is \u2018yes\u2019, the bulb will light up. :)\r\n\r\nIn the next blog post, I will be sharing about the advantages and disadvantages of arranging bulbs in series and in parallel.\r\n\r\nStay tuned! :)\r\n\r\n<hr \/>\r\n\r\n[thrive_leads id='8207']","_et_gb_content_width":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_lmt_disableupdate":"no","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"post_folder":[],"modified_by":"Joline","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=340"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":241229,"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340\/revisions\/241229"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/241537"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=340"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=340"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=340"},{"taxonomy":"post_folder","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepiquelab.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/post_folder?post=340"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}